Out of all the people who I talked to in the past two days, one of them made the most since. This person told me about how their father let the kids be adopted by a stepfather. How there was no closure in their life, and they felt abandoned, unwanted, and most of all unloved.
This person spoke from experience, and to this day this persons’ feelings have not healed. I felt like I was only two inches tall, completely forgetting about what this person had already gone through, and still is.
The person I’m speaking of, is my wife. Without her empathetic nature, I would have made the biggest mistake of my life. She reminded me of the love I used to have in my heart, and would still have, if I would stop pounding my chest and look for solutions instead.
The simple fact is guys, is that every time I ask for an address or phone number so that I could write or speak to my son, the courts stated, we can’t give that to you, if you want the address or phone number, submit the proper paperwork to the courts. Well, when your ex lives 1700miles away, it puts a huge damper on your budget. They also told me, she wouldn’t get but a slap on the wrist anyway. Several times she moved, and remarried, did she notify the courts like the documents state? NO. The list goes on… I have to take out cash advance every time I need to pay my lawyer. BTW, when I do – I only apply for payday loans from direct lenders as this is much faster and safer way to get cash.
For my son, the child support payments are $497 a month. The arrearages are being disputed because of several discrepancies in the child support divisions paperwork. But, as it stands, they added $300 on top of the $497, you add it up. Now I have a daughter, who lives only 3 hours away. I get to see her whenever I want, my second ex never gives me any trouble on the matter. My child support payments for her, are, $262 a month. Bottom line, I pay $1059 in child support a month. I make net, $1537 a month, what do you think I have left over? How do you think my Christmas was this year, or any other for that matter? How do you think birthdays are around this house? I think you get the picture.
My wife now, has two children of her own, and we live with my mother because we can’t afford to live anywhere else.
Now you have facts, and now you know why it’s so hard for me to fight this, or try to get some time to try and go see my son. I’m sure there will people out there, who will find great pleasure to continue the unkind words towards me.
Go ahead and say what you want, continue showing people what a hearless troll you are. My wife and stepchildren will still love me, because I decided “NOT TO GIVE UP”. Someday, I hope my son will thank me for not giving up too.
To anybody else I forgot, THANK YOU for slapping me upside the head and knocking some sense into it. To the people who continue slandering me, I have a special place on my anatomy for you, so pucker up. For those who keep putting down the Marine Corps, what’s the matter, couldn’t get into the military, or is it a, don’t ask, don’t tell kind of thing?
I’m on skype if you want to talk to me and find out what I’m trying to do.